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jdmiller4life



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PostSubject: So what IS the big deal?   Thu Sep 18, 2008 9:22 pm

I work at a social work agency and there are plenty of hot chicks there.

I understand why we all say office relationships are bad news. Things can get awkward. But what if you can keep it professional? There's a supervisor in the office and her boss is her husband. They keep it professional and seem to be very happy. What if you can manage the two different roles? If you can be co-workers from 8-4 and fuckbuddies/in a relationship afterwards?

Then I see no problem at all.

Comments?

(I'm saying all this because there's this mighty fine chick in the office I'm gonna see if she's interested if she's single)

JD
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Career Sergeant Zim



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PostSubject: Re: So what IS the big deal?   Thu Sep 18, 2008 10:54 pm

I'd guess that it works for the boss because they're married, not that they dont fight, but their relationship is more stable. Few things are as cool in this world as banging a hot chich you work with, the problem isn't that soo much, it's what the hell are you gonna do now?! If your gonna persue a relationship, that might not be so bad, it's th whole breaking it off thing that gets hairy.
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Rico



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PostSubject: Re: So what IS the big deal?   Fri Sep 19, 2008 12:26 am

I once had to leave a job because things went bad with not one, not two, but three women that I had dated at separate times that all worked in the same place with me. Yes sirs, I am the poster boy for shitting where you eat. I've done it at almost every job I've ever worked out, from retail to office jobs. Now I'm more careful but the thoughts are still there. You have to really play your cards right and be smooth about it. Let's face it... You tend to date people who you are comfortable with, because you already kinda know them and see them and that's half the battle already. It takes some of the work out of dating and chances are you already flirted with her on an occasion or two if you're thinking about making a move. I say, if you think you gotta a shot and you don't mind the consequences that may occur as an aftershock of whatever happens, go for it. You never know. I met my current girlfriend of 5 years where I used to work, so anything can happen. Like I always say, it's what's available. And places like work or school, when you're around the same people all the time and you get to know the women around you, it helps your chances. Just be careful with the whole fuck buddy thing. That's one situation that can get iffy trust me. Good luck though if you try and make a move.
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